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She will make the gnocchi pasta and spend an hour hand rolling it; she will make the full sauce from scratch. A far cry from my dismal 5-minute effort of packet pasta and jarred sauce before I get back into more exciting things!But I am not wrong for my non-value of cooking and her right. And she is not wrong for her view of cooking and me right. We simply have different values on cooking. She loves the process of it, and her dishes are reflective of this great love of cooking. They are divine every time. They contain love and you can literally taste it.WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT VALUESIn fact it has been said that no two people have the exact same hierarchy of values. So whilst this is great for variety and giving us the diverse world in which we live, it can be the very source of conflict and frustration with anyone we deal with.We feel that we are just too different, we don't like doing the same things, we have different viewpoints, I have to compromise all the time, he always does what he wants to do, she is not interested in my stuff nike air max thea türkis , he always watches sport, my dad was always at work&[censored] ip; he never had time for me.This potential conflict plays out for every relationship we have; from intimate partners to parents (both now and as a child) and friends and business associates. Even entities such as corportions and government agencies&[censored] ip; all of them have values and agendas they want met.HOW DO YOU KNOW YOURS OR SOMEONES VALUES?You can see what your values are by what interests you the most&[censored] ip; where you spend most of your time, where you spend your money and what you ensure you have around you in your home or office life.For example for me, my highest value is my own consciousness and the awakening to the truth of who I am. I have been studying this, meditating and surrounding myself with conscious people for the past 9 years. I will do anything to learn more about myself.A large chunk of my money has gone on courses, books, seminars, and material over the years that have assisted my consciousness. Now my money goes on creating products to share my wisdom and allow me to speak and write about consciousness.So if someone looked at my life there would be absolutely no doubt that consciousness is my top value.Others in your life have their own values too. If you want to see what your partner nike air max 90 herren günstig , family member or friends values are then look at what they demonstrate in their lives. It will usually be fairly obvious if you look.BUT BEWARE WHAT YOU OR OTHER PEOPLE 'SAY' THEY VALUEOne of the traps of values is that it is so easy to fall into believing that you have one set of values, but demonstrate in life a totally different set.So often we can live the values of someone else instead of what is true for us. 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Many call it the comfort zone nike air max 90 hyperfuse wei? , but maybe we have just so taken on the values of everyone around us, our work colleagues or partner more especially (we do spend a lot of time with them after all) that we have in effect lost 'ourselves' in the process.The difficulty is that you will usually attract a mate that has the exact opposite values to you. Yes opposites do often attract! This is so you learn to love the other parts of what is presenting itself to you in life, and therefore in turn learn to love all parts of yourself. Your partner is reflective of this by having things in them you don't necessarily love... and to give you the opportunity to love these things through them!And this is the very purpose of relationships.Since at our greatest level of truth we are all things, we are naturally surrounded by parts of ourselves that we have yet to love within us. For example, if we have not learned to love greed, and accept that we are all greedy in different ways, we will attract someone into our lives that is overtly greedy so we can learn to see how greed serves u
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